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Kids gastroenteritis / vomiting-diarrhoea school exclusion for dual-career families in Singapore

When vomiting or diarrhoea hits preschool or school — dual EP coverage owners, written return rules, hydration plans, swim and enrichment holds, and sibling cascade realism.

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One vomit in the classroom and the dual-career week collapses. EP/DP households on r/askSingapore keep arguing “48 hours symptom-free” folklore at 06:40 while both Slack statuses stay green — then learning that return rules are written, not vibes.

Ordinary sick matrix: sick-child coverage. Rash outbreaks: HFMD coverage. Vesicles: chickenpox exclusion. This guide is gastro / vomiting–diarrhoea exclusion ops.

Coverage products

ProductWhy
Named overnight + morning ownerVomiting peaks before first stand-up
Written return clockCentre letters beat WhatsApp folklore
Hydration / red-flag cardWritten list beats memory at 03:00
Swim / food-handling holdPool and cooking CCA are not “fresh air”
Sibling cascade checkSame bathroom can wipe both calendars

Dual-career playbook

  1. Photograph the school/preschool exclusion text into the shared channel within 15 minutes.
  2. Name today’s coverage owner before the first Zoom (dual-career spouse).
  3. Book GP / paediatric review if red flags appear (finding a paediatrician); do not invent forum ORS recipes as medical advice.
  4. Put the symptom-free return clock on both calendars; protect one deep-work block for the non-coverage parent.
  5. Pause swim and food-related enrichment until the written hold lifts (kids swimming & water safety).
  6. Rewrite helper rest-day collisions if exclusion lands on a Sunday (rest-day coverage).

Traps

TrapFix
“No vomit since breakfast” = clearedFollow the written return clock
Both parents “monitoring between meetings”One coverage owner
Sending a still-queasy child to swim “for the social”Written water hold
Sharing cups / towels across siblingsLaundry + separate cups day one
Burning both PTO stacks on day oneStagger coverage

Questions to close tonight

  1. Who owns overnight hydration checks?
  2. What exact line does the school letter use for return?
  3. Is swim / food CCA paused in writing?
  4. Does the well sibling’s class still run tomorrow?